Adekunle Gold Says Family Comes First, Vows Never to Be a Failed Father

Lagos, Nigeria – October 10, 2025 – In a raw and inspiring revelation that’s striking a chord with fans and fellow artists alike, Afrobeats sensation Adekunle Gold has declared his family as the unshakeable core of his existence, vowing to never falter in his role as a husband and father. During a candid episode of the NotJustOk podcast released yesterday, the 38-year-old singer-songwriter opened up about his profound commitment to wife Simi and their five-year-old daughter, Adejare (Deja), emphasizing that professional setbacks pale in comparison to personal ones.

“My family is my centre. I don’t joke with my family. I can afford to be a failed musician, not a failed father or a man,” Gold shared, his voice steady with conviction.    He elaborated that fatherhood has redefined his ambitions, transforming the drive behind his chart-topping hits into a singular mission: to gift Deja a life worlds apart from the hardships of his own Yoruba upbringing in Lagos. “All I wanted is to do more for my own daughter because I can’t afford to bring her into the kind of life I grew up living. It has to be way better,” he reflected, crediting the little girl’s infectious smile and Simi’s steadfast support as his daily fuel.  

The heartfelt admission also unveiled a personal layer to Gold’s 2024 single “My Love Is The Same,” which he revealed was born from his pledge to remain a present, loving dad amid the whirlwind of tours and studio sessions. Married to fellow Afrobeats powerhouse Simi since 2019 in a low-key ceremony that melted hearts online, the couple—often dubbed music’s ultimate power duo—has long been admired for their blended harmony of artistry and domestic bliss. Their daughter, born in 2020, has made cameo appearances in family vlogs and even helped unveil a street sign named after her father in a viral 2023 moment that showcased their grounded celebrity.

Gold’s words come at a reflective juncture in his career, fresh off collaborations with global icons like Davido and a sold-out U.S. tour, yet he’s quick to ground his success in vulnerability. “Success, recognition, and awards are valuable, but none of them compare to the joy and fulfilment that come from being a good father and husband,” he noted, underscoring how fatherhood has honed his patience, responsibility, and work ethic.  It’s a ethos that resonates in an industry rife with tales of absentee parents and fractured homes, positioning Gold as a beacon for intentional living.

Social media lit up post-podcast, with fans flooding his Instagram (@adekunleAMG) with praise. “AG is the blueprint for Black fatherhood—real kings prioritize the throne at home,” one user gushed, while another quipped, “Portable who? This is how you balance vibes and values.” Even Simi chimed in with a subtle heart-eyes emoji on a repost, fueling speculation about a joint family track on the horizon.

As Adekunle Gold eyes future projects, including a teased sophomore album, his testimony serves as a timely anthem for modern masculinity: Fame fades, but family endures. In a world chasing spotlights, Gold’s light shines brightest off-stage.

Catch the full NotJustOk podcast episode on YouTube for more from Adekunle Gold, and follow him on Instagram (@adekunleAMG) for family moments and music drops.

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