Controversial Take Ignites Fury: “Any Girl 25-30 Without Pregnancy is a Red Flag,” Says Nigerian Influencer GehGeh
A bold and divisive statement from popular Nigerian social media influencer GehGeh has sent shockwaves across online communities, sparking heated debates on gender roles, fertility, and societal expectations. In a viral video clip, GehGeh declared that “any girl between the age of 25-30 wey never get belle once for her life, na red flag,” translating to any woman in that age bracket who has never been pregnant is a warning sign in relationships. The remark, shared widely on platforms like X (formerly Twitter), has drawn sharp criticism for being outdated, misogynistic, and dismissive of women’s autonomy, while a minority defends it as pragmatic advice in cultural contexts.
The video, originally posted by GehGeh and reposted by entertainment outlet YabaLeftOnline, has amassed thousands of views and hundreds of reactions within hours of going viral on Thursday. In the clip, the influencer elaborates on his reasoning, suggesting that a lack of prior pregnancy in that age range could indicate underlying fertility issues, unwillingness to commit to family life, or other personal red flags that men should watch out for before marriage. “Why she no get belle? Something dey there,” he questions, implying suspicion over women’s reproductive histories. The statement aligns with broader discussions in Nigerian online spaces about marriage pressures, but it has been lambasted for ignoring modern realities like career priorities, education, and personal choice.
Social media erupted almost immediately, with users across genders voicing outrage. One prominent response from @iam_bosungirl called the comment “not an iota of sense,” questioning its logic in an era where women are increasingly delaying motherhood for professional growth. @edinenWEB3 went further, accusing GehGeh of “dangerously misinforming the public” and labeling women in their 20s who focus on self-development as undeserving of trust or marriage. @RoarKingg, identifying as KING KENNEDY™, delivered a scathing takedown, citing rising pregnancy rates among women over 30 due to factors like financial stability and career focus. “Your clout chasing statement ignores the diverse circumstances… Labeling these choices as RED FLAG is not only disrespectful but also undermines the agency of our lovely women,” the post read, urging followers to “STOP LISTENING TO GEH GEH!!!”
Defenders of the view, though fewer, echoed similar sentiments from past viral debates. Posts referencing older discussions, such as those from @OneJoblessBoy and @instablog9ja on men over 30 without children being red flags, highlighted a double standard in how fertility and family timelines are judged by gender. @SoulSageSay argued that single men over 30 with no kids represent “discipline and freedom,” flipping the narrative to critique societal pressures on both sexes. Meanwhile, @iamdcvector15 supported GehGeh partially, advising young people to “focus and stop crying” if unprepared for relationships, though stopping short of endorsing the pregnancy-specific claim.
This isn’t the first time such topics have fueled controversy in Nigeria’s digital sphere. Similar debates have raged over “unmarried women at 30” being red flags, as seen in a May 2025 post by @KenyanSays that garnered over 500 likes. Critics point to evolving demographics: Nigerian women are pursuing higher education and careers at record rates, with fertility rates among those in their late 20s declining due to contraception access and economic factors, according to recent health reports. Feminists and women’s rights advocates have flooded comment sections, with one user @UruHannah recalling shock at similar sentiments as far back as 2021, emphasizing the need to “unpack” such backward views.
GehGeh, known for his unfiltered relationship advice and comedic skits on platforms like Instagram and X, has yet to respond to the backlash as of press time. His account, which boasts a significant following in Nigeria’s youth demographic, often stirs debates on dating and marriage, but this latest remark has crossed into territory many view as harmful. Relationship experts have weighed in indirectly, with some calling for balanced conversations that respect individual choices over archaic benchmarks.
As the debate rages on, it underscores deeper tensions in Nigerian society around gender equality and reproductive rights. Whether GehGeh’s words were meant as satire or serious counsel, they’ve undeniably struck a nerve, prompting calls for more nuanced discussions on love, family, and personal timelines in the 21st century.